Etiquette & FAQs

  • If the screening information you submit is insufficient, I may require you to submit one of the other options. 

    I will need at least one from EACH category:

    Category A

    1. Government issued ID + selfie with ID (only photograph, full name, DOB, and expiration date need to be visible)

    2. Two provider references: Must have spent time together within the past 12 months. Providers must have a website and at least one active social media account

    3. P411 with "Okays," Private Delights membership with provider responses to reviews, and/or TER whitelist, with message sent from handle

    Category B

    1. Phone number connected to personal information (non-VOIP). I will NOT contact you this way without permission

    2. Professional: LinkedIn profile (200+ connections), work ID/badge, business card, company website or official social media account featuring you, OR a blank email from your work address (I can provide an alternate email address for discretion). I will NOT contact you this way

    3. Education: image of student ID, a blank email from your .edu student address (I can provide an alternate email address for discretion), name and image featured on the school’s website or social media

    4. Active social media account with pictures of yourself and at least 12 months of history. I will NOT contact you this way without permission

    If I cannot verify you, I cannot see you. This is for my safety and comfort, so I can give you my best, most relaxed self. Privacy is a top priority, and these will only be seen by me.

  • Companionship, kink, and massage - 20% of total

    DMTY - 20% of total plus travel fee (if applicable)

    FMTY - FMTY fee only

    Phone consultation - 100% of total

    Remaining balance to be paid in cash unless otherwise agreed.

    Booking less than 48hrs in advance? Please be prepared to screen and deposit in a timely manner.

    For sessions booked more than 48hrs in advance, deposit must be sent at least 48hrs prior to our date to secure our time together.

    For FMTY, deposit should be sent sooner rather than later, at the latest one week prior to our date. This is non-refundable except in the rare event that I need to cancel.

    Faster: Venmo, Cashapp, Zelle, Square (card processor; processing fees apply), Amazon gift card, crypto

    Slower: Wishlists (cash gifts and/or gift cards - credited once posted) or cash enclosed in a book sent to my PO Box, which is credited once received.

    To pay the full balance in wishlist gifts, add 50% of total cost to sent items (for ex. a $900 booking costs $1350 in gifts). Must receive in full prior to appointment.

  • No call no show - full deposit forfeited, 50% deposit to rebook

    Less than 12hrs - full deposit forfeited, 30% deposit to rebook

    Less than 24hrs - 50% of deposit returned

    Less than 48hrs - 75% of deposit returned

    More than 48hrs - 100% of deposit returned

    Travel fee - nonrefundable under 48hrs

    FMTY fee - nonrefundable

    Phone consultation fee – nonrefundable

    Cancellation / reschedule on my end - 100% of deposit returned

    Rescheduling? Your returnable portion of the deposit can be credited towards the new deposit.

    If at any point in the process your words or actions make me feel unsafe or disrespected, I reserve the right to immediately end our time together without refund.

  • My general business hours are 11am to 11pm daily.

    Extended hours, overnights, and days available for familiar faces.

    4 hours minimum notice, at least 48 hours’ notice recommended

    FMTY - at least 1 week notice

    Priority given to returning clients and longer bookings

    While I'm selective with whom I share my time with, I do enjoy a busy schedule full of diverse hobbies. You're welcome to reach out for a same day booking, but I may not be able to accommodate you. Please provide backup dates and times or your general availability in your inquiry to improve our chances of meeting.

  • Photographing, videotaping, filming, or digitally recording me on any device is strictly prohibited by both myself and the law. Appropriate action will be taken.

    Want a souvenir worth 1000 words? Do it the right way - add film and/or photo to any booking for $450. No full face, using my camera.

  • A travel fee may apply at my discretion for commutes over an hour roundtrip. This may be waived based on the location, date, time, and booking duration. You may also sponsor a tour or FMTY.

    This fee is non-refundable when cancelling with less than 48 hours notice.

    Learn more here.

  • Life happens. If you are running behind, please keep me updated on your ETA, and I will do the same. There is a 15 minute grace period. After that, I may have to shorten the session length by the amount of time you are late, depending on the rest of my schedule for the day.

  • Mutual respect, privacy, discretion, and safety are vital. All screening information and communications are seen by my eyes only.

    Deposits sent via Venmo or Cashapp should include a discrete note such as groceries, gym membership, concert ticket, vet bills, gift, books, video games, etc.

  • Tasteful reviews demonstrating an appreciation for mutual respect and discretion are welcome. These platforms include Private Delights, P411, TER, and TNA.

    Likewise, with permission, I may use a cropped text or email exchange for a “testimonial” appreciation post on social media.

  • Please provide patronage within the first few minutes of meeting, either in an envelope, card, book, or gift bag with an item from my wishlist.

    You will be asked to freshen up upon arrival. If we are retiring to the boudoir post-meal or activity, I would be glad to share a shower together.